Of Parents And Remote Control

No, I'm not talking about Astro or any TV channels punya remote =.=

I'm talking about parents who control their children in Universities as if they were still in their own homes.

WARNING. THE FOLLOWING POST WILL BE FILLED WITH MUCH ANGER AND ABUSIVE WORDS. READ AT YOUR OWN WILL.

When I got together with her, I thought I would never see her cry. Not this much, at least. But due to two people who never seem to understand the damn meaning of "living one's own life", it's causing their daughter so much stress that it's killing her on the inside.

For the love of God, CAN'T YOU UNDERSTAND THAT SHE HAS HER OWN NEEDS AND WANTS?! SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING YOUR WAY DAMN IT! YOU COULDN'T PASS ACCOUNTS... SO WHAT?! DOES THAT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO PUSH ALL YOUR FAILED ACHIEVEMENTS TO YOUR CHILD????? ARE YOU SURE THAT IS WHAT SHE WANTS?!?!?!?!?!

Ah, that's the point. You don't care do you? BOTH of you. MUM and DAD. I know it's how you lead your family but to me, it's just so damn bloody wrong. First you tell her not to overstress herself in secondary school. Now, you tell her to focus on her study and nothing else in University. MAKE UP YOUR MIND.

And another thing.. you who never listen to your daughter's pleads, wants.. problems... you don't even let her go to camp... to the point where she even knows not to ask you because you would just reject the request anyway. If she goes, you start blasting your wife. If she doesn't, she'll just be rotting at home doing business, business, business...... what else? MORE DAMN BUSINESS.


Can't you see that she wants some space? She has her own life to lead. If you were to control her for all her life, she's just gonna be a damn freaking doll. Guess what? It's all because of YOU.


The thing I hate most right now; parents who can't seem to understand SHIT about their children. Everything revolves around your world eh? Guess what folks. It doesn't.

NOT EVERYTHING GOES YOUR DAMN WAY.

A lot of CF members are going to comment about this.. I know this post is wrong because it is not honouring parents... but please do not take this TOOO seriously... My patience limit has broken about this issue above and that's why I was typing this post.. there are some things that even parents need to change....

Midterm and Assignment

New record! : Finished Management Studies Mid-Term examination in 10 minutes

:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D


Tomorrow's assignment is 20 minutes. 10 minutes for each person.

Slides are about to be done, it's going to be an impromptu speech...

Wish me luck.

Change?

Somehow I realised that my mood and attitude changes along with my friends' mood.

When most of them are emo, I tend to start thinking a lot and stone a lot too.

I tend to get serious more often too and sometimes more explosive.


Probably the same way I got my "joker-ness".


But I guess it's a good thing somehow. Need to get serious for examinations that are coming faster than a bullet train.



On a side note..


What do you think of this sentence?

"I am a pro at being a noob"


Hmm.....

Owned T.T

Went for snooker with Kyle, Shu, Anthony, and Kelvin last night after dinner.

one word = PWNED T.T

I only scored 2 points and the rest kena sapu by Kelvin Wong lol...

After that we went to play DOTA....

two words = Double PWNED T.T


Kyle, Shu and Kelvin cannot be in the same team!!!!! RAWR!!!

lol-ness

Tribute to James Khor

To James Khor :

I may not know who you are,

I may not have met you personally,

I may not have been able to chat with you,

but there's one thing I would like to say to you.

May you find Paradise in the after-life,

May you find Peace there,

May you feel the warmth and the comfort in Heaven,

May you find the Lord.

For those who are shaken by the terrible news about James Khor and his friends who recently passed away due to an accident of nature, may peace be with you... I'm sure God is watching over him and taking care of him right now :)

And for those who are posting hate messages and using his name in his blog, (though I know you people won't be reading this, but oh well..) SCREW YOU!! You do not appreciate life and death, you do not know the meaning of condolence, and you have no brain to process the word......... "mourn". All you damn people know is just to say negative things day in, day out... YOU CAN'T EVEN LET HIM BE AFTER HE'S NOT IN THIS WORLD! WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?! I bet you.... the next time you pass away (I will not "touch-wood" here... I'm friggin' serious =.=) how would you feel if people just threw rubbish at your grave? And you know what the messed up part is? You're doing it virtually by spamming rubbish at his blog. Get a life damn it.

Just like Rachael Chin in Facebook who scolds people for buying her "pet" in Friends For Sale, oh come on... isn't the game meant for buying people so that the "value" increases? You who call people "slut" for buying your "pet".. aren't you one to accuse??? You bought him in the first place... who's the "slut" now huh??? HUH???????? =.=

What's wrong with the world today... Kampar getting more and more popular due to the recent news... Everyone... start praying for yourselves... for your loved ones... for your family back at home and the "family" you have in your campus/school/varsity/college/ (ah... u get what I mean..) that everyone you know will be safe... you may not know him/her that well... but once that person is not in this world, you will still feel the pain in your heart knowing that you could have known him/her better.. appreciate each and everyone in your life... You'll never know when things could take a turn in life... It could be good.....

or bad....

We'll never know... do we?

This is a song contributed to James Khor, and everyone in Kampar.

Lord, hear our cry..

Come heal our land..

Breathe life into these dry and thirsty souls..

Lord, hear our prayers..

Forgive our sins...

And as we call on your name..

Would You make this a place for Your glory to dwell.

Open the blind eyes,

Unlock the deaf ears,

Come to Your people,

As we draw near..

Hear us from Heaven,

Touch our generations,

We are Your people,

Crying out in desperation...

Hear us from Heaven..

Hear us from Heaven...

Hear us from Heaven....

Self-Evaluation? Hmm..

This is one of the rare moments that I went out to Ghany, sat there with 3 people and started talking about almost everything... from how many kids we wanted to testicles (yes, I know it sounds wrong.. but it was a cold morning and we were talking about how our "balls" would freeze).. So after meeting the CF mates in Jensen's house busy making muffins and apple tarts, we decided to go Ghany to have supper... the rest went back.. leaving Renjie, ShuTY, Eric and I to talk about almost everything..

It was an enjoyable time, and this was the first time I got to know so much about Eric, Renjie, and ShuTY (their opinions and their stories).. and then we were talking about what is our purpose in life... not in spiritual sense.. but... What are we here for? What talents do we have? What are we supposed to do?

We also talked about studies, non-Christians and Christians... and a thought came to my mind.. I'm sorta having such a good life... that I'm slacking off a lot.. That I myself don't know what am I reaching for.. what is my aim? my goal? my ambition?

What can I do to motivate myself to strive for excellence? If I'm really doing this for myself, I need to know what I'm aiming for right? Somehow I don't have a motivation that's strong enough to push me forward to score well (in a sense, sorry mum and dad T.T).

Maybe I need to do what Eric said... maybe I need to self-evaluate....

but....


how?



oh yeah.. we were at Ghany 'till 6.30 in the morning XD